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Kimberly Warner's avatar

A perfect metaphor Ben. Gosh. I’m going to hold onto this one. Stitching dreams to reality with purpose and persistence, traveling time (time alterations!) with every stitch. I’ve missed your words and wisdom here. You have so much to offer.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thanks so much for the kind words, Kimberly.

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Susie Mawhinney's avatar

Ben, if even half the world had a heart as big and kind as yours is much of our worries would end. What a strikingly empathetic piece... I love the metaphor, not because of its beauty, though it is, but because stitches, ultimately, not only bind the fabric but can repair it too.

Beautifully spoken my friend... as ever.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thank you, Susie.

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Chris Correia's avatar

Thank you, Ben.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thanks for reading, Chris.

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Nathan Slake's avatar

Damn, Ben, this one made me tear up right now. Moving and beautiful. The simple act of kindness and what that can do.

Lovely lovely metaphor, too.

You know, there's a homeless guy who sits down by our local market. He's always reading a book. He has a sign next to him that reads, "Homeless but hopeful" and every time I see that I feel this pang inside to help, to do something, but each time I find I'm in a hurry and I pass him by. I'm terrible, but such is the comfortable loop that I've been in. I have given him some change on the occasion that I've had some, but that's probably not all that helpful. I want to do more like you've done here.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thank you, Nathan. It’s very hard to step out of our own narrative to see where we might be useful just because the problems around us feel so completely overwhelming. This is just one small thing I’ve found that I can do and it brings me a little peace.

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Shonda Sinclair's avatar

It's beautiful that you didn't have to become homeless to be able to see. Sympathy can awaken powerful purpose. The idea of all humanity walking together

on a quilt we are stitching with our dreams and actions is a strangely comforting and compelling metaphor.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Hi Shonda, thanks so much for reading and commenting. I’m glad this piece found you.

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Phil Castro's avatar

Thanks for the introduction to Darren and more so for offering him your attention and a much needed pair of shoes. I imagine the well of love and compassion you, Paradis, and the kiddos created while compiling the care packages still fills your heart. I always enjoy and appreciate your words and wisdom.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thanks, Phil. That means a lot. I appreciate you reading and commenting. Looking forward to book club in a couple of weeks.

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Ramya Kolla's avatar

It's fascinating how you turn the repetition of everyday life into something sacred, a time travel that allows us to see and do better.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Hi Ramya! It is fascinating isn’t it? Thanks for reading.

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Thank you, Ben, for your humanity and kindness and willingness to try something different. I love the image of stitching our gossamer dreams into the heavy canvas of reality. In rare and precious moments, we might even see that the canvas is a figment of our imagination. Or that we are also weaving the canvas itself with our choices.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Ultimately, I feel like I do so little Julie. The problems in our world are so overwhelming. It provides the perfect alibi to do nothing. Thanks as always friend for reading and commenting on my work.

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Lisa Abend's avatar

Beautiful and piercing. Thank you for writing it.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thank you for taking the time to read it Lisa. I’m glad it spoke to you.

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Dave Paquiot's avatar

This hit a soft place in me.

How many times do we pass the same person, the same corner, the same moment—until it finally looks back at us?

The way you frame routine as a kind of time travel feels exactly right. Sometimes repetition isn’t a trap, it’s the universe giving us another chance to respond the way we should have the first time.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thank you so much, Dave. I’m glad this piece resonated with you.

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Holly Starley's avatar

What a wonderful metaphor, Ben. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for your wisdom.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thanks so much, Holly. You’re too kind. ❤️

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Shannon W Haynes's avatar

I have listened to two of your novels so far and I always enjoy your work and your audio productions, that’s why I subscribe. Thank you for writing.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thanks so much, Shannon. I’m so happy you’re here.

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Rose Campbell's avatar

This is very touching, and insightful too- thank you for sharing your gift for writing.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thanks so much for reading, Rose.

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Terry Freedman's avatar

Beautiful sentiments, beautifully written.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Thank you, Terry!

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Terry Freedman's avatar

My pleasure, Sir

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